“as your faith is strengthened, you will find that there is no longer the need to have a sense of control, that things will flow as they will, and that you will flow with them, to your great delight and benefit” – emmanuel teney
one of the first things you have to learn about living with a disease is learning to accept that you have no control of what happens to us in some situations, but we have full control over our attitude and how we decide to react. though i may be in the middle of an unpredictable disease, by taking responsibility and doing all i can to control the rest of my body and what i do with it, i am taking control. running and training is my way of controlling what i can, even when im literally running from a treadmill to a bathroom..
i feel pretty in limbo this week. after having so much anxiety to see which direction my new treatment will take me, ive developed Google-itis & have done entirely too much research on the 2 drugs that will hopefully get me where i need to be. everything ive google so far has been negative & unfortunately, there are a lot of patients that put their horror stories online for the world to read. even more unfortunate, there is a correlation when drugs start to work.. there is a tendency for patients to stop using online support groups once their drugs start working. most of the time, they dont go back to the online forums and tell them their success, since they no longer need the support or validation of others.
so i guess the theme of the week is going with the flow, something i really continue to learn with this disease. many years since living with this disease, my time of the day i seem to really struggle with is morning shortly after waking up. when you wake up, so does your immune system – much like my brain, my stomach does not like mornings either! lately though, ive been having increased pain & symptoms that have been extremely disruptive to my sleep. learning to go with the flow on little sleep has been difficult. i honestly cannot wait to see my gastro.. (who says that?!)
in the meantime, a lot of deep breaths will be taken and prayers will be said.