“We tend to not see people as they really are but as they fit into our rules, boundaries and definitions. Burn these to the ground and you’ll begin to see others in the pure light of honesty and who they really are.”
Living with any type of illness, you realize pretty quickly that friendships are a lot like storms; many come in waves, whether it’s support or not and often, when you least expect them. How do you manage when people can’t decide whether they want to stay in your life? If you find yourself asking this question out loud, you’ve found the answer my friends. It’s time to leave, presumably before they drop you first.
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