polar vortex flaring

days like today remind me why i treasure my good days, my great days.64917faabd5fe5a7059db2f1b0f2057a

i had a rough night last night & havent been feeling my greatest lately (scumbag lungs, fissure). im in a flare right now & its definitely affecting the rest of my body. ive been trying my best to do low impact exercises to keep up with my training plan, but even that seems to be too much lately.

i told a friend last night, most days, my positive attitude wins over my IBD, but there are some days you have to let it physically and emotionally defeat you, or youll never win your battle against it. i cried. i cried a lot last night and today. humility brings us back to a level where we know we can try to control our emotions/attitude as best we can, but we come to a point where we have to accept we cannot always control our bodies. and that is hard. i hate calling into work, but i know that i would be unable to physically do any job today. if can manage to get from point A on the couch today to point B being the bathroom, id be lucky. quite a shitty situation when you get the urge.

my fibro has been flaring badly the past week. my hands (thumbs & joints specifically) have been difficult to move lately. id chalk it up to cold weather, but its lasted too long & flaring doesnt help. ive been lucky enough to be blessed with a family doctor that knows me well & responds very quickly to my requests. the route wed had originally tried cost well over $200 with insurance, so we settled on a different med for the past few months, but it hasnt been working. today, he phoned in a topical pain solution and we tried the other drug again. $256 with insurance. tears, again.

im such its the lack of sleep, energy & exercise ive had this week, but im bummed/exhausted/fed up with my body. comically, im always the first one to say “oh, rub some dirt on it. youll be fine !” but to hell with the dirt today, ill cry instead. the dirt will be there tomorrow.

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in the midst of uncertainty

“as your faith is strengthened, you will find that there is no longer the need to have a sense of control, that things will flow as they will, and that you will flow with them, to your great delight and benefit” – emmanuel teney

one of the first things you have to learn about living with a disease is learning to accept that you have no control of what happens to us in some situations, but we have full control over our attitude and how we decide to react. though i may be in the middle of an unpredictable disease, by taking responsibility and doing all i can to control the rest of my body and what i do with it, i am taking control. running and training is my way of controlling what i can, even when im literally running from a treadmill to a bathroom..

i feel pretty in limbo this week. after having so much anxiety to see which direction my new treatment will take me, ive developed Google-itis & have done entirely too much research on the 2 drugs that will hopefully get me  where i need to be.  everything ive google so far has been negative & unfortunately, there are a lot of patients that put their horror stories online for the world to read.  even more unfortunate, there is a correlation when drugs start to work.. there is a tendency for patients to stop using online support groups once their drugs start working. most of the time, they dont go back to the online forums and tell them their success, since they no longer need the support or validation of others.

so i guess the theme of the week is going with the flow, something i really continue to learn with this disease. many years since living with this disease, my time of the day i seem to really struggle with is morning shortly after waking up. when you wake up, so does your immune system – much like my brain, my stomach does not like mornings either! lately though, ive been having increased pain & symptoms that have been extremely disruptive to my sleep. learning to go with the flow on little sleep has been difficult. i honestly cannot wait to see my gastro.. (who says that?!)

in the meantime, a lot of deep breaths will be taken and prayers will be said.

xox,

kelly

ears of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny
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