Remission

im not sure what Remission means. its not something im honestly all too familiar with. the last time i was in clinical Remission, was before i was diagnosed with crohns disease or ulcerative colitis. Image

i capitalize Remission for a number of reasons, but the main reason being i see it as a state, a royal majestic state. if you read much of my writing, im sure youre annoyed by my constant writing habit of writing in all under case, with very few exceptions.

as much as i hate to admit it, there is no way around “if”. “if i knew what being in Remission meant.. “if i had enough energy to finish my day as strong as i started it”.. i think every single day, i find myself finishing my “if” quandaries differently. “if” is one word i one delete from the language of chronic illness. its so limiting, so restricting.

many days, Remission to me, means reminding myself of the things im not able to do. and. this. sucks. who wants to be reminded constantly of the things they are unable to do, and even worse, condemn themselves from doing these actions? im my own worst critic. its an awful feeling having to doubt or deny yourself things you deserve to be happy in life.

my daydreams of Remission are vivid.. soft puffy clouds, cats riding unicorns, sparkly ice cream cones floating in the air, mountains of cheese flowing like lava into the streets, dancing orchestras on Fat Tuesday, huskies saying “i love you”, playing dizzybats with old coworkers and havings drinks at the bar winning dart tournaments at Wolskis….. living freely without hesitation.

Remission to me means being able to wake up in the morning and jump out of bed & having the ability of walking out the door with no medications. instead, i pick up my heavy sack off the floor before i leave, knowing i will need at least 3 of the 8 bottles of medication in it before noon.

Remission means no puking, or spending 60% of my days in pain. Remission means food. Remission means being able to be in public and not be disgusted by the smell of other peoples that i cant eat. Remission means no lung issues, chronic rotten infections, days spent hurdled up in bed, or nights spent crying on the bathroom floor. Remission means allowing myself grumpy days that are completely unrelated to my health – & really happy days celebrating my ability to breathe freely. Remission is a sigh a relief. Remission is family, friends & never cancelling plans. Remission is Hope, a Future. Remission is smiles. Remission means normal.

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was all this for nothing?

20131216-204808.jpggaining trust with me is hard. gaining trust with me & sticking your phalanges up in my icky part business is a whole nother level of trust.

though i knew it may be coming, we were told today our work would be changing insurances…. (i suppose this is good news, being that last week, we were told it may not be offered at all). what does this mean for me? starting over.  i find myself starting to cry writing this. after all of the scopes & scans and more xrays tomorrow & lab work and GI visits ive had over the past three months (GI appt every 3 weeks). tonight, i cannot help but think… was this all for nothing?

i started back up at Aurora hospital 3 months ago after changing from doctor(s) in milwaukee the past 5 years. Aurora will always be the place i call home. the place that saved my life & the place that gave me a second chance to live my life for the better.. it gave meaning and purpose to my life.

im terrified to change hospitals. lets be honest…. im terrible with change. i put off establishing a GI in milwaukee until i had to be hospitalized for a week. i had bad experience with many doctors at several different well-known medical facilities down there, even more the reason i hate this change.

not only do i lose my GI/go-to hospital, i also lose my primary care physician, whom i trust very much. i may still be able to go to him, but will be paying out of pocket. but who the $*#$ can afford out of pocket when you have so much medical debt already? him though, he is a GEM. for him, i would make this exception.   [i have never had insurance that hasnt allowed me to go to these doctors….]

most troubling is that my prescription benefits are changing. to a crohns patient, this can most important. im not even sure what to say, other than im terrified, ridden with anxiety & feel a little hopeless today knowing that my prescription regimen is going to change soon. im sure ill wind up back on a bi-weekly biologic that is more expensive than a down-payment on a car.

bringing me to the title of this…. was the last 3 months all for nothing? ive been seeing my current GI pretty consistently for the past 3 months about every 3 weeks. my next appointment with him was scheduled to be Jan 2…. my primary care physician on Jan 9.  now, usually i have no problem rescheduling later down the road, but i need to be seen by both of these doctors. so, that means i need to establish a new GI & fast. aint nobody got time fo dat!

last year, trying to find an assistance program that would let me pay a minimal amount for my Humira required taking off work for two days to find someone that would be able to help me afford the injection. it took more than 30 (THIRTY) calls to med companies before i finally had some type of solution.  i feel like im starting over. im mentally upset, physically not feeling well and having to fast for 24+ hours for xrays tomorrow has NOT helped either. knowing that tomorrow may be the last time im at Aurora (for at least 1 year) makes me really sad. im hopeful that this new chapter has good results, but i am ridden with anxiety.

i read this verse tonight & will say it over and over the next few weeks: “have I not commanded you? be strong & courageous. do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” – Joshua 1:9

out of every challenge comes strength, right?